What’s on My Pod Cast List

Hi my loves when I post this it will be two days after Easter but Happy belated Easter.  As you can see in the title I will go thru what I list on my pod cast well. I use this app in the morning and/or when I need to have positive thoughts in my head. Just in case you do not know what podcast means its means that its digital audio file made available on the internet for downloading to a computer or mobile subscribers

I am going to give you my favorite top ten pod cast channels I listen to help me clear my mind and not hurt anyone. Enjoy:


Joyce Meyer : Enjoying Everyday Life ( She OMG she has saved a lot of people from getting hurt physically and emotionally)

td jakes

T.D Jakes: Panoply ( He gets me up and hype to tackle days that I think will be crazy)

joel osteen

Joel Osteen: (When I am down and I need a smile his service always making me smile he always have jokes in his services)


Garyvee: The Garyvee Audio experience ( When I am dragging my feet about stuff His words encourage me to get the F@&k up and do)

breakfast club

The Breakfast Club (When I want to hear gossip in the music industry I list to them They are crazy lol)

saintheron.bmp ( I play this at work yes at work I handle the baby boomers (elderly)

daymond john

Daymond John: Rise and Grind: ( I listen to him in the morning when I know I need to get my mind ready for work)


Inspirational living ( I listen to the page when I truly need to hear the word of god and my day is gloomy and they give me hope)


Lori Harder: Earn your happy Cast ( When I have my women is power mood I listen to her she really cool)


Kara Loewentheil J.D: Unf*ck your brain feminist blueprint ( she is funny and ear opening page )

You might wonder do I list music I do but I listen to music on Spotify don’t worry I will make a blog about that. Sometimes you need an inspirational group of people to listen to You should go and listen to them so when you do. Please tag me and tell me what you think. Enjoy your day my loves

My Opinion

Drug Test In Schools

Hi my loves;

I know it been so long since I posted anything, but I am back. As you can see in the title you might wonder how I came up with this topic, well it happen a few days ago I was in a store shopping. When a group of young men walking passed me they ranged from the ages of 9 to 12 years old I did not pay attention to them that much but something caught my attention. I smelled weed, it was really strong odor in the area remind you it was just me and the group of boys. I thought I was going crazy, so I looked at my fiancée’ and he looked at me I asked him to double-check what I smelled he agree. When I looked at the boys I seen that was really high. I was soooo blown away that they was that young doing it. This made me wonder how their parents do not notice this going on. I am not ashamed to say but I used to smoke it and I know how long the smell last on you and the look you have on your face. I was not that young when I had started but I notice when people was high. This made me wonder if they get high on the weekend if they get high during school time.

I posted my IG and Facebook asking should school do drug test. To my surprise a lot of parents said no they shouldn’t and when I asked why not they said that the parents should handle it. Me personally parents do not know or realize that their child are using drugs or even alcohol. When kids get busted with drugs it’s usually during school time and that’s when parents find out they child is doing drugs. I wonder if schools did drug test and to my surprise they do BUT ONLY to kids that was in sports. I understand why they tested kids that was doing sports, but there are kids that do drugs and if their classmate do not rat them out no one will know.
drug dog
Parents I am sorry I know you do not want give the school that much authority over your child, But think about the different punishment that can happen to the child if school find out and when a parent find out. When the school find out they will call you and send your child to juvenile detention, which there is a 50% percentile that this will scare the child straight and they will be to scared to do it again because they do not know when the school do random drug tests. When a parent finds out that their child is doing drugs you might want to send them to rehab thats if you can afford it or they will punish them but some cases this do not change the child view on drugs. Think about it when you was younger can you remember your parent saying if you bad they was going to call the police to take them away. I know my mom wasn’t the only crazy mom (LOL).
drug books
I used to work in the juvenile detention and I can remember hearing kids say they did drugs in their parents house and they will tell me how many time they got caught by their parents but nothing happen or they was punished and they still did it. When I asked how they got in juvenile detention they tried their luck and did drugs or smoked in the school and they got rated out. It’s crazy how parents will bail them out sooo fast and they wouldn’t learn from their mistake. They will continue doing it.

If I was asked to vote if I want my child to be drug tested I would sign for it. I rather be safe then sorry I would want to nip it in the bud before its to late. But the child will feel you do not trust them. Me personally I know how sneake I was at young age so. Parents think about it if you see you niece or nephew of neighbor child doing drugs would you tell or just ignore it. Well this is what you; you want the school to ignore the facted that they just caught  your child your niece, nephew or neighbor child doing drugs so their parents can handle it. Schools are supposed to support and protect your child. By the time the parent get help for their child it might be too late alot of these drug rehab cost a lot of money to send them and keep them their. But if the school catch them they can help get them help they need and show that they are loved from everyone home and school.

So tell me what you think do you think they should be drug tested at school.

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Our top 10 things to do when you have Stay-in -Date

Hi, my loves how you doing. As you can see I will tell you about my top 10 stay in date.

I love being in my comfy sweats and tank top looking at movies with my best friend so here are our top 10 stay in date.




1. OK, I’m not sure about you but we love these two programs we sometimes do not have the time to catch our favorite shows or movies so we pick a weekend when we would get comfy and enjoy the movies/shows.







2. We have a small backyard so days like it is today especially when its 65 degrees in Florida that’s really cold, but when you have a grill going and you with your best friend you do not even realize how cold it is.






3. As said before we have a small backyard so we set up the backyard at night and we would just have a picnic at night me personally it’s much enjoyed having the stars hearing the crickets comfy weather and being with your best friend.







pool side 1


4. Sitting at the pool is so relaxing we have a community pool where we live and we have all access to it which some nights we would go in (its heated pool) or sometimes we would just sit on the side and enjoy each other company and talk about your day.






5. Chopped yes chopped find something the two of you like and both try to cook the same thing at the same time. This would make the two of you competitors and it will make it more fun. Hopefully you win in my case his better cook. lol.






Couple walking down Namsan stairs by night. Seoul, South Korea


6. The next one is walking around your neighborhood. I find it soooo relaxing omg. In some states you can enjoy the beautiful lights or snow in my case the warm breezy and bright stars.







moving furniture7. The next crazy one is rearrange your place. Wait wait some people enjoy walking thru a room and see how nice the place when you move things around it makes you feel so good to see the room look different and refreshing.


The last three we haven’t tried it yet but we will. If you try these next four let me now. ok.


wine tasting


8.Wine Tasting we recently found our new favorite wine thanks to my sister. So instead of going spending big money on winery we get a few bottles and test them out. Hope and pray we find a good one.






9.The next one is both of you can get together and combine your favorite music. You’ll can play it on road trips or it can be played at your wedding or when you are around house. I think this will be fun. It might make the two of you mad but it will make you smile.






10. The last one is Cuddling I heard about this from my pastor he said that when you or your mate are mad before they take it out on other person, the two of you should cuddle up do not say anything no t.v no music it just the two of you’ll hear each other heart beat and after couple of mins you might forget why and who was mad.


We enjoy our stay in date it makes more special and sweet and QTime. If you and your mate can’t find a baby sitter or if your funds are low try these special
times out. If you have something different lets us know ok Enjoy

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Self love


Whats on my Bucket List


Hi, my loves have you ever wanted to do something or go somewhere special before a special occasion. You might wonder what I mean well I mean before you settle down before you start a family, or before a certain age like 30 mark or 40 mark. Well, you might be like me were I never thought about it. It took a movie called “The Bucket List” starring Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman. If you haven’t seen it before it’s about these two men that are dying from cancer and they realize that there are places they never been to and there things they never done but they always wanted to do. I won’t tell you the whole movie but you would like it.

I posted a question on my facebook(@sealymoni) and my Instagram (@sealymoni) and Twitter (@sealymoni) asking everyone “What is on your bucket list ” and the number 1 response is travel to another country. I am going to share my top ten of my Bucket List, enjoy:

  1. Go to Paris, Germany, Asia, Japan, India
  2. Go on a month-long boat cruise
  3. Try blow fish and octopus say (thanks to Andrew Zimmern)
  4. Rent an RV and go cross-country  drive with my Best Friend(fiancee)
  5. Run a marathon
  6. Go skinny dipping at the beach
  7. Go bungee jumping
  8. Take my Twin (my mother) on a boat cruise
  9. Go on a hot air balloon ride
  10. Go to Hollywood (I know I know silly)

I would like to get this done or halfway done before my 40th birthday which is five years from now. So tell me at two things on your bucket list. I can’t wait to see what’s on your bucket list.



What was the best moment in your relationship so far…

Hi, my loves even thou I been with my fiancee’ for two years, it feels like for years, lol. I remember when I surprised him on father days to a trip for the weekend. He hates surprises so it was soooo much fun lol. It blew him away but that’s not the day I’m talking about. I remember we went on a road trip from Florida to Tennessee o my god it was beautiful. But that wasn’t my best moment of our relationship.

It was May 5th, 2017 this is when our world changed. I found out we were having babies yes babies actual twins a boy and a girl. This was all ways my dream to have twins. from May 5th to August 4th that was the best time in our relationship. I was able to go thru morning sickness feet swelling and see or twins grow. This brought both families together like they always said “You need a village to raise a child” but in my case “I will need a country to raise my twins”

But on August 5th at 1:30 am I had premature labor which we lost our twins. You think it would be our worst day it is, but we don’t think of it as the worst moment we look at as the best because we were able to have children and even tho they are not here with us they are watching over us. Please don’t feel bad for us like I said we are blessed and God will bless us again. Please tell me what is your best moment in your relationship hear from you soon.